We tend to lean towards confident people. Why is this, and how can we become confident ourselves? The confident people are the ones who have spend a lot of their time constantly learning new things and refining their skills. No matter at what point you are at the spectrum of skillfull persons you can improve by utilising your time wisely to learn new activies and skills.
#Lifelonglearning is the first step towards becoming the greatest you can ever become. Once you started this route there are some other steps you can take. Find the succesful people, learn from them and spend time at a close proximity of them. It is being said that you become the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with. So invest your time wisely by finding the people who can improve your life, without giving up your support to your close friends.
Positivity, confidence, and persistence are key in life, so never give up on yourself. – Khalid
Unfortunately their will always be a place and time where you don’t feel as comfortable and confident as you would like. These are the moments that will really shape you. Continue on driving yourself forwards and pushing towards growth. Stay persistent with improving yourself and remain as positive as you can be under the circumstances. With every step you take you will increase your confidence. Before you know it all the hard work you have put into it will show up and people will notice that you have obtained the true confidence by remaining persistent in everything you did.
Before you have achieved the confident level you desire there is one more option you have. “Fake it till you make it”. Hold yourself up straight, look in front of you, search contact with people and show external confidence. To show this confidence look back at activities that you excel at. Have you ever had a subject at school or hobby that you really enjoyed and where at the top of the pack? Consider the feeling at those moments and try to copy those moments in your current situation. The sooner you can get that feeling back, the sooner you can reproduce that feeling of confidence in other parts of your life.